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What to Wear to an Indian Wedding for Men

From the kurta pajama to the sherwani, here is how men can dress well for an Indian wedding, with the right look for each event, plus colours and footwear.

By the PurvX team · Updated 2026-06-08

Quick answer

For an Indian wedding, men typically wear a kurta pajama, often elevated with a Nehru jacket, for most events, and a sherwani or indo-western set for the most formal occasions. Choose jewel tones or neutrals in silk or cotton-silk, avoid white, black and bridal red, and match the formality to the event.

The core options

Kurta pajama

A long tunic over slim trousers. The most versatile guest choice, comfortable for any event in the right fabric.

Nehru jacket

A short, structured sleeveless jacket worn over a kurta. Instantly more formal, and far easier to dance in than a sherwani.

Sherwani

A long, embroidered coat over trousers. The most formal option, usually best for close family, groomsmen or grand events.

Indo-western / bandhgala

A fusion of tailored jacket and ethnic detailing. A sharp, modern choice for the reception.

What to wear to each event

Fabrics and colours

For the wedding and reception, choose silk, cotton-silk or brocade in jewel tones or classic neutrals: deep blue, forest green, burgundy or cream. Lighter cotton or linen suits daytime events. Avoid white, black and bridal red, and lean into festive colour.

Footwear and accessories

Traditional juttis or mojaris (embroidered slip-on shoes) complete the look and are easy to remove for ceremonies. A pocket square, a brooch or a simple stole can finish a formal outfit. Keep it understated so the outfit leads.

Guest versus groomsman or family

A standard guest does not need a sherwani. A well-chosen kurta with a Nehru jacket is more than enough and often more comfortable. Close family and groomsmen dress more formally and may coordinate with the wedding palette, so check with the couple if you are part of the wedding party.

Where to find menswear

Men’s ethnic wear is often worn only a handful of times, which makes preloved a smart choice for a kurta or sherwani you may not repeat. Browse menswear on PurvX.

Sherwanis and indo-western looks

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Men’s Indian wedding attire: FAQ

The questions guests and search assistants ask most.

What should a man wear to an Indian wedding?

A kurta pajama, often with a Nehru jacket, works for most events and most guests. A sherwani or indo-western set suits the most formal occasions and is typical for close family and groomsmen.

Kurta or sherwani: which should a guest wear?

For a standard guest, a kurta with a Nehru jacket is ideal: smart, comfortable and appropriate. A sherwani is grander and is usually best reserved for family members and the wedding party.

What colours should men avoid at an Indian wedding?

Avoid white, black and bridal red. Choose jewel tones such as deep blue, green or burgundy, or classic neutrals like cream, in silk or cotton-silk.

What shoes do men wear with Indian wedding outfits?

Traditional juttis or mojaris, which are embroidered slip-on shoes, pair well and are easy to remove for ceremonies. Loafers can work for indo-western looks.

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