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Men’s style guideFrom the kurta pajama to the sherwani, here is how men can dress well for an Indian wedding, with the right look for each event, plus colours and footwear.
Quick answer
For an Indian wedding, men typically wear a kurta pajama, often elevated with a Nehru jacket, for most events, and a sherwani or indo-western set for the most formal occasions. Choose jewel tones or neutrals in silk or cotton-silk, avoid white, black and bridal red, and match the formality to the event.
A long tunic over slim trousers. The most versatile guest choice, comfortable for any event in the right fabric.
A short, structured sleeveless jacket worn over a kurta. Instantly more formal, and far easier to dance in than a sherwani.
A long, embroidered coat over trousers. The most formal option, usually best for close family, groomsmen or grand events.
A fusion of tailored jacket and ethnic detailing. A sharp, modern choice for the reception.
For the wedding and reception, choose silk, cotton-silk or brocade in jewel tones or classic neutrals: deep blue, forest green, burgundy or cream. Lighter cotton or linen suits daytime events. Avoid white, black and bridal red, and lean into festive colour.
Traditional juttis or mojaris (embroidered slip-on shoes) complete the look and are easy to remove for ceremonies. A pocket square, a brooch or a simple stole can finish a formal outfit. Keep it understated so the outfit leads.
A standard guest does not need a sherwani. A well-chosen kurta with a Nehru jacket is more than enough and often more comfortable. Close family and groomsmen dress more formally and may coordinate with the wedding palette, so check with the couple if you are part of the wedding party.
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Good to know
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A kurta pajama, often with a Nehru jacket, works for most events and most guests. A sherwani or indo-western set suits the most formal occasions and is typical for close family and groomsmen.
For a standard guest, a kurta with a Nehru jacket is ideal: smart, comfortable and appropriate. A sherwani is grander and is usually best reserved for family members and the wedding party.
Avoid white, black and bridal red. Choose jewel tones such as deep blue, green or burgundy, or classic neutrals like cream, in silk or cotton-silk.
Traditional juttis or mojaris, which are embroidered slip-on shoes, pair well and are easy to remove for ceremonies. Loafers can work for indo-western looks.
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